And sometimes, someone really was in Philly for a work event. Follow Charley on Twitter. Why would he want to stay in his decent relationship, when he can have one with someone younger and hotter? They may be able to offer you a good life, but as quickly as they are able to put you up, they are just as easily able to put you down. And none of them are really that offensive.
Maybe what you thought was cute and unique in the beginning, is now actually just impossible and a bit strange, and you realize you do not see yourself growing old with someone like him.
So say no to 'eh' and find something freaking awesome. It's so easy to find a decent dude you can tolerate and slip into the comfort of a relationship hoping that things will be okay.